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Communication Skills & Addressing Others by Name

Communication skills: How does it make you feel when someone remembers your name and calls you by it? Most people are typically impressed and subconsciously feel a bit more noticed or validated. Remembering and calling others by name is a valuable, remarkable communication skill that should be used often.

Last week we were watching one of the “feel good” backstories behind one of the Olympic teams, and the coach made a comment that stopped Jamie in his tracks. He mentioned that the leadership skill he works the hardest on is always making a conscious effort to address his players and coaches by name. Jamie is about to take command of an Intelligence company next month, so he really took to heart the idea of personalizing the way he speaks to the solders   in his company.

Communication Skills & the Importance of Remembering Others’ Names

My mom and I have talked before that this is a quality we’ve always deeply admired about my youth pastor growing up (also the man that married Jamie and me). He consistently impressed my parents for years by greeting them by name. My mom says that every time she saw him, he would smile and say “Hi Nancy!”. With hundreds of students in our youth group and then hundreds of more parents of those youth, it always impressed her that he memorized and used peoples’ names in his greetings.

I just ran into my pastor and his family back in April when I was visiting Alabama, and as usual he greeted me with a smile, a hug, and a “Hey Erica!”

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There’s just something about when someone uses your name (especially someone you don’t know well or haven’t seen in a while) that makes you feel noticed and valued.

After having this recent conversation with Jamie, I started noticing that I love when people address Hadley by her name. Since we live in a small(ish) town, it’s impossible not to run into someone everywhere we go, and I think it’s so neat when we run into an acquaintance who speaks directly to Hadley and greets her by her name. I don’t want to think too much into it, but it warms my heart when others speak to her directly and individualize her by greeting her by name, even though she’s only two.

I think for some people this is a natural strength (to remember and use others’ names), and for others it’s more of a struggle that has to be worked on. I fit in the latter group, but since having this conversation last week we both agree that this is a skill we want to consciously improve on.

Let’s chat!

What’re your thoughts on this subject? Do you know someone who does an exceptional job at remembering and using others’ names?

PS: My thoughts on those who frequently break plans…

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Erica

Hi! I’m Erica, and I absolutely adore sharing my life on this website with you! I come here almost daily to blab about all of the things related to being a regular wife and mother in today’s ever-evolving society. I share about our new home, what’s on our kitchen table, what we’re hanging in our closets, where we’re traveling to next, my crazy 5 a.m. work outs, how I make time for girlfriends, our faith, and much more. We always have a lot of balls in the air and somewhat thrive on the chaos. I believe in the power of story-telling as a form of inspiration and entertainment, so I’m here to do both! I was born and raised in north Alabama and recently re-planted roots here again after my husband transitioned out of the Army (he is now in the Reserve and it’s going so well!) I’m a super proud mom to three little girls (ages 7, 4, and 1) who seem to be the stars of the show around here (for good reason – they’re pretty great!) I’m so glad you found me and are here reading! I hope we can get to know each other here on the blog as well as Facebook and/or Instagram. xoxo

August 21, 2016

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Meet Erica

Hi! I’m Erica, and I absolutely adore sharing my life on this website with you!

I come here almost daily to blab about all of the things related to being a regular wife and mother in today’s ever-evolving society. I share about our new home, what’s on our kitchen table, what we’re hanging in our closets, where we’re traveling to next, my crazy 5 a.m. work outs, how I make time for girlfriends, our faith, and much more. We always have a lot of balls in the air and somewhat thrive on the chaos.

I believe in the power of story-telling as a form of inspiration and entertainment, so I’m here to do both! I was born and raised in north Alabama and recently re-planted roots here again after my husband transitioned out of the Army (he is now in the Reserve and it’s going so well!) I’m a super proud mom to three little girls (ages 7, 5, and 1) who seem to be the stars of the show around here (for good reason – they’re pretty great!)

I’m so glad you found me and are here reading! I hope we can get to know each other here on the blog as well as Facebook and/or Instagram. xoxo

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